Accessing Self: Daily Practice
An IFS daily practice log for accessing Self through brief unblending, breathing, curiosity and kindness practices, tracking Self qualities noticed.
1-page fillable PDF · US Letter (prints on A4) · Internal Family Systems
- Approach / concern
- IFS / Parts Work
- Technique
- Internal Family Systems
- Format
- Fillable PDF, 1 page (US Letter / A4)
- Access
- Pro and Advanced plans (3-day free trial)
- For
- Licensed clinicians to use with clients
- Updated
- October 2026
Key facts
What is the Accessing Self: Daily Practice?
Self-energy is characterized by qualities such as calm, curiosity and compassion. Brief daily practices help clients notice and strengthen access to Self between sessions.
Why it works
IFS holds that all parts have positive intentions and that Self can lead the internal system with curiosity and compassion (Schwartz & Sweezy, 2020; Schwartz, 2021).
When to use it
- IFS and parts-informed therapy
- Self-criticism and inner conflict
- Trauma (with pacing)
- Between-session practice
How to use it in session
- Choose practices.
- Do one briefly each day.
- Note Self qualities.
- Review patterns.
- Bring observations to session.
Clinician tips
- Self is accessed, not created.
- Keep practices short.
- Celebrate small moments.
Worked example
Sharing with clients
Members can download the PDF to print or email, or copy a private client link from the download box. Your client opens the link and downloads the worksheet on any device. No client account is needed, and nothing your client writes is stored on TherapyAid.
Frequently asked questions
What if I can’t find Self?
Parts may be blended. Ask them to give a little space, and be patient.
How long should practices take?
Seconds to a few minutes; consistency matters more than length.
References
Schwartz, R. C., & Sweezy, M. (2020). Internal family systems therapy (2nd ed.). Guilford Press.
Schwartz, R. C. (2021). No bad parts: Healing trauma and restoring wholeness with the internal family systems model. Sounds True.
This worksheet is an educational tool for use by, or under the guidance of, a licensed or registered mental-health professional. It is not a diagnostic instrument or a substitute for clinical judgement. If a client is in crisis in Canada, call or text 9-8-8 or call 9-1-1.
